Friday, 14 August 2015

Adult colouring in books in high demand

Colouring in books for adults are the latest phenomenon to hit bookstores throughout the country leading to a shortage.

Adults colouring in pictures for relaxation started in France about 18 months ago as the concept of Mindfulness took hold and seems to have arrived here about three months ago.

Mindfulness, has its roots in Buddhism and is about actively focusing attention on the present without judging it.

Timaru counsellor and Mindfulness facilitator Christine Macfarlane said colouring in, in a busy world with high anxiety, activates the right creative side of the brain.

"It allows you to have space to be, instead of do."

Temuka kindergarten teacher Haylee Darling started colouring in after researching Mindfulness about a year ago.

"I enjoyed the result. It's a simple pleasure."

Depending on how stressed she was will determine how long she will fill In the shapes in her book with coloured pencils.

"Usually for five to 10 minutes or half an hour. "

People may scoff but it was a "fabulous" thing to do, she said.

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"I highly recommend it."

Like many adults who have taken up colouring in, sourcing the books was challenging.

"I'm on a waiting list for one."


Whitcoulls national book manager Joan Mackenzie said the demand was "massive" and the company's suppliers had struggled to keep up.

"It's the biggest phenomenon I have seen since Harry Potter."

The Timaru store was selling between 10 and 20 of the books a day and had a waiting list. Mackenzie expects the Timaru branch to sell about 1000 between now and Christmas.

One of the most sought-after adult books was by Scottish illustrator Johanna Basford who has published intricate picture outlines within pictures. For example, an outline of a fox may have forest flora shaped within its body and puzzles with clues imbedded visually as a narrative. Some New Zealand artists were starting to create books but it would be a while before they were produced. Children's colouring in books were selling by default when the ones the adults wanted were unavailable, Mackenzie said.

Though more women were interested in the pastime than men, Mackenzie knew of the chief executive of a large company who was encouraging all his staff to colour in for relaxation regardless of gender.

"These things do have a life cycle so I think it will be around and dominant into 2016," Mackenzie said.

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Friday, 7 August 2015

5 Keys to Real Happiness From 5 Must-Read Books

Fairytales feed our minds with the enchanted thoughts about finding a situation where our wishes are fulfilled and we live "happily ever after." Contrary to this belief, happiness is not something to go out and find. Happiness is made (with focus and effort) from within. Following the guidance of researchers and masters in wellbeing we can extract these key points:

1. Accept the unfamiliar.

If you only find value in what you know well and ignore or dislike everything unfamiliar, you may be passing up on life's diamonds. Open yourself up to learning new perspectives. "Novelty, or exposing ourselves to new ideas and experiences, promotes the growth of new connections among existing neurons," Daniel J. Siegel explains in Mindsight. Siegel explains how the brain and personality forms and transforms as we incorporate new behaviors. Openness to a new practice such as meditation that focuses on balance and fulfillment can not only give you a new experience, but can change your personality to becoming a harmonious, happy person.

As Bob Dylan puts it, "He not busy being born is busy dying." Life is growth and linked to happiness through the joy of expanding our abilities. For example, learning a new specialty, language or other ability brings greater pleasure than limiting yourself to continuing to only do what you know. Like a coal miner who knows and depends on the value of coal, if he is open to find something "not coal" he may find a diamond.

Open up and expand yourself towards happiness.

2. Activate your intuition.

Not everything is figured out rationally. In fact, sometimes we can use logic to disclaim truth. (Think of the rational belief people once had that the world is flat and had an edge to fall off. Thankfully, someone had an intuition that opened up new territories. )

For those of us that have been so schooled to only trust knowledge that comes from books or backed by scientific studies, we could access meaningful wisdom by listening to intuition. "The intuitive way of perceiving has always put me in touch with the effortless, truly joyful nature of life and showed me how, when we approach our experiences with childlike innocence and awe, miracles abound," delights Penny Peirce, intuitive development trainer in the introduction of her book, The Intuitive Way.

Learning the wisdom you have inside can begin filling you with joy.

3. Mindfully sort through information.

We are constantly bombarded with information. Deciding what we take in either moves us toward happiness of derails us into depression. Be conscious of the underlying direction of the information that you take in from the books you read, shows you watch and conversations that you participate in. Ask yourself, "Is the message here moving me towards hopefulness and compassion or hopelessness, fear and anger?"

Hope and compassion encourages us to connect into viable support systems with others, allowing for greater possibilities in collaboration. "Mindfulness can also be described as compassion, because it is an empathetic awareness," as explained in the book, Mindfulness by Mark Williams, John Teasdale, Zindel Segal and Jon Kabat-Zinn. The authors, professors and researchers in psychology and medicine, explain that depression is overcome by empathetic awareness. When we create bonds of caring with others, those bonds build our secure sense of self.

Stories, real or fiction, that describe love and caring stimulate our internal position to the mindful compassionate state of being. Choose to expose yourself to the friends, news, shows, books and other media that convey hopeful accounts.

4. Use language carefully.

What we say forms our thinking and eventually our actions. For those who speak different languages, you know that a different way of thinking accommodates the tongue.

In the English language we experience words that call for harmony from Martin Luther King Jr, words that inspire courage from Winston Churchill and words that evoke passion from William Shakespeare. In our personal lives, we recall encouraging words of a parent, teacher or coach that carry us through challenges. We probably recall how a criticism was phrased in a supportive way or in a style that crushed us.

The language we use to describe others and ourselves forms thoughts and behaviors that shift our identity. "Words will and do influence your actions. They start the painting of your self-projection to others and reinforce this image within," David Fastiggi reminds us in Your True Identity. We tend to follow the words we say about ourselves into becoming our personality.

5. Appreciate who you are.

Recognize the positives of your qualities. All qualities have a plus side and aspects that can irritate others. Instead of focusing on wanting to change your qualities, change the way you use your qualities. Appreciating yourself facilitates your ability to love, respect and value others as well.

"Everything, even your success issues and your circumstances, boils down to whether you are in an internal state of fear or an internal state of love," Alexander Loyd clarifies in his recently released book, Beyond Willpower: The Secret Principle to Achieve Success in Life, Love and Happiness. Compassionate acceptance of yourself with love frees you to make choices towards fulfillment and happiness. The small choices we make based on love or fear accumulate to the life we build. Therefore love yourself.

AND as you appreciate who you are, do the same for others. We are mirrors to one another.

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